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家长帮助孩子的必备良方

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">家庭教育在孩子的生活和学习中是至关重要的,父母配合孩子成功学习的必要条件有哪些呢?带着这个疑问,学大教育的资深教育家贾教授给家长指点迷津,提出以下</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">点作为参考,希望家长能够认真感悟一下。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">、<B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">布置一个良好的学习环境</B></SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><FONT size=3>  如果希望孩子喜欢读书,那么,家中应该有书、杂志、报纸。孩子在书香环境中成长,自然会喜欢接近书,喜欢看书。</FONT></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"> <BR>&nbsp; &nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">但是,这个环境还必须是简化了的,不能太嘈杂或是一下子提供太多的学习刺激,以免孩子无法专心地学习。</SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">、<B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">用正面的语言和亲自示范的方式来教导他</B></SPAN></FONT><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN></B><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  如果您希望孩子学习一种好的行为,那么您最好使用正面的语言,明确地告诉他所要做的行为,例如告诉他</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">我们应该</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">……</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">做</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">,而不是只批评他、责备他做得不对。然后再亲自示范正确的动作来教导他。如果孩子说会,那么就让他做给你看,再指导他正确的方式。</SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">、<B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">不要打扰他的专心</B></SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><FONT size=3>  孩子专心在做某一件事时,不要去打扰他。第一件事还没完成之前,不要叫他做第二件,也不要让他做太多或做一些超乎他能力的事,否则,孩子在匆忙、心急的情况下,很容易就会养成放弃的习惯,怎会有始有终呢?</FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">、<B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">和孩子一起游戏</B></SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  从游戏中可以训练他的一些基本能力</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">如:形成简单的数的概念</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">。有时也可以将复杂的学习活动分成几个简单的步骤,引导孩子一步一步去完成。</SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">、<B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">多鼓励他</B></SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">  只要孩子有好的行为,有一丁点的进步,哪怕他的表现不如我们的理想,我们也要鼓励、赞赏他,使他保有学习的原动力</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p><FONT size=3>&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; 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